Attraction by possible Soulmate?

[alexandros8888]

Hello all! I have an other sort of question. I liked a female former colleague in my former job. Although there was attraction between me and she, and a mutual chemistry in the beginning stages, of our conversational exchange(or at least there were for sure, tiny bits of attraction.),a platonic friendship or a romantic relationship didn't prospered at the time of our mutual acquaintance in my previous job. Sometimes also, when I was very near her in my previous job, I felt a very strong, unexplainable, spiritual or maybe etheric cord connection between us.(I do not preclude the likelihood to be my Soulmate/ or call it whatever you want you get the idea of what I mean.) My question is at the time there is a sort of connection between me and she,(either this is strong or weak)can I influence her to want to know me better?(I mean influence NOT persuade)through sigil magic which I have created and posting them and hiding them in stories which she watches on my social media?

Very sorry guys if my question looks silly, but I write all these here, because I treat this personal matter, as a very important occult lesson, I should learn.

I really appreciate your input

Thank you very much in advance

Alexandros

[Amor]

It looks like you have been siblings several times, with other relationship formats on occasion.

[FoxGhost]

I've met my soul mate. We were friends&more through our teenage years. To this day she is only person on earth who really knows who i am, and i dare say the same of her. My current spouse and kids don't come close to familiarity we shared. But ultimately as we had certain, not inconsiderate, obstacles ahead us she was presented with an easier choice that she took and we went our separate ways.

This story is to illustrate that relationship are complicated, with forces and dynamics both known and unknown at work. Trying to influence that with magik is, in my opinion, like trying to fix a running engine in the dark with your bare hands. You just wont know what is influencing what and are liable to poke your finger in to something that will take it off. Plain old talking is more likely to produce results, even if the results are not always what we want.

FoxGhost

[WildWolf]

Cords connecting people, are common as clouds in the sky. We have cords with family, friends and romantic partners. Developing one's powers of seduction is it's own kind of magick and can be a lot of fun to explore.

[Amor]

... Developing one's powers of seduction is it's own kind of magick ...

The question for me is who/what drives the process. Both the seducer and the seduced may be victims of unseen intelligences